Hello All...
I went to a various meetings today on my business and with a new friend helping his business as well. I am very excited to get started on the work. It is a release to me. Helps clear my head and relax. I know that sounds crazy putting work and relax together, but I love keeping busy.
I love doing my own thing, being out there helping others and expanding my contacts to expand my business ventures. I hope that this works out with new friend and we make a great team. If you go in a meeting that ends up lasting more than an hour and you both come out smiling in the end, thats a good sign. Right? Oh I hope so.
Other than my busy day, I had a decent afternoon. And then....I came home. Give me some input PLEASE. If you leave home and your man is good and then you return asking a simple question to the reply of 'its none of your business' would you be a upset? I am really getting annoyed by the things that are being said to me lately for no apparent reason. I know love is hard, but to just be right out rude and inconsiderate is uncalled for.
Anyway I got some work to do, so this one is short and sweet tonight. Until tomorrow or later maybe : )
Wednesday, November 17, 2010
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
Flyers, Alarms And One Scared Honey Bee...
Hello Again...Tonight my honey bee and I went to pass out some flyers at office buildings for my business I am trying to get off the ground. I want to clean offices, do apartment move outs, things like that. Well I have a funny story and couldn't wait to share it with you.
We came upon a little section that had many office buildings and we started sliding flyers in doors. We come to the back of the buildings which is darker than the rest. Right as my honey turns from posting a flyer on a door the alarm and lights start going off like crazy. He jumped so high and ran like I'd never seen before.
It came to the conclusion the alarm was very sensitive and when the wind moved the flyer it set it off. He starts yelling 'come on lets go hurry' and I am saying 'honey we did nothing wrong calm down they're not going to come get us'. Of course the whole time laughing hysterically.
Other than that I had a great night with the honey bee and my kiddos. Manana I am going to continue my obsession with handing out flyers. I made over 1000 and no matter how many I do a day it seems as they will never end. But that's a good thing. Now if I could just get people to start calling for some work.
My dad called me asking about thanksgiving. I promised him I would make it up there and intend to keep my word for him. Love Ya Dad. My son and daughter were laughing tonight because we put a flyer at a small animal hospital and my daughter say 'mom your going to work for animals' and my son said 'yeah they will poop and she walk behing em all day cleaning it up'. Then he said ' mom how do you work for animals if they dont talk'. Too cute and mommy had to explain yet again what she does when working. My baby girl said ' I hope they hire her and pay her with puppies instead of money'.
Well until later...
We came upon a little section that had many office buildings and we started sliding flyers in doors. We come to the back of the buildings which is darker than the rest. Right as my honey turns from posting a flyer on a door the alarm and lights start going off like crazy. He jumped so high and ran like I'd never seen before.
It came to the conclusion the alarm was very sensitive and when the wind moved the flyer it set it off. He starts yelling 'come on lets go hurry' and I am saying 'honey we did nothing wrong calm down they're not going to come get us'. Of course the whole time laughing hysterically.
Other than that I had a great night with the honey bee and my kiddos. Manana I am going to continue my obsession with handing out flyers. I made over 1000 and no matter how many I do a day it seems as they will never end. But that's a good thing. Now if I could just get people to start calling for some work.
My dad called me asking about thanksgiving. I promised him I would make it up there and intend to keep my word for him. Love Ya Dad. My son and daughter were laughing tonight because we put a flyer at a small animal hospital and my daughter say 'mom your going to work for animals' and my son said 'yeah they will poop and she walk behing em all day cleaning it up'. Then he said ' mom how do you work for animals if they dont talk'. Too cute and mommy had to explain yet again what she does when working. My baby girl said ' I hope they hire her and pay her with puppies instead of money'.
Well until later...
Past Becomes Present... Again
This morning I had a blast from the past...Again. Let me fill you in on the details. I have a ex best friend that I have known for more than 6 years. And the reason I say ex, is because after so many time of the same scenerio, I unfortunately realized she was not best friend material.
This is the type of girl that will do anything for you. She would be by my side no matter what, in any situation...until...she started seeing a new guy. And there have been alot of new guys in six years. It's like they took over her ability to do or say anything on her own. This girl wants to please her new guy in any and every way. Unfortunately, in the process she throws all family and friends to the side to make this happen.
It could be from the guy being a jerk to her, not likeing one of us, wanting her all to their self, etc. She puts up with it, not having any respect or well being for her kids and expects us to stay off in the distance. In the end when he leaves or she finally wakes up...To her it's expected we still be her friend. To forgive her and understand that we are the most important in her life? This has happened to me several times and every time I forgive and move on because that's what friends do right? WRONG this time things went way to far and I moved on.
Now dont get me wrong, when she is single, she is a great friend, but this last guy is a jerk. They fought so much that it became a day to day ordeal. I moved in with them for a short period to reevaluate my life and he was horrible. She began blameing things she had or hadnt done on me, just to keep him from yelling at her. Well then he began hating me and talking bad about me. I didnt know that she had done this til the day he asked for the money on electric. I gave it to him no problem and later there was a note ..YES A NOTE on my door stating he did not want rent two weeks later, but instead for me to move.
Instead of her standing up and telling him the truth on her lies, she pretended it was all me and let this happen to what she proclaimed as her true life friend. Well I left, but this time I let her know I would not be there to pick up her pieces. It ended in a huge fight very close to physical and almost 4 weeks to the day I have not spoken with her.
Guess who texted? Trying to be friendly saying her kids missed mine, asking about work, etc. I respectfully answer with yes or no answers and left it at that. I can tell by the texts she was trying to get her rock back. I know that sounds funny, but we were each others shoulder to cry on in life, love and everything in between.
I miss her dearly and want to catch her up on how well my life is, but do I dare fall back into the craziness of her life dramas? We had the strongest grip in each others lives, but aside from all this, I also heard that she was talking trash and a friend of both of ours showed me private messages between them and the way she was bad mouthing me. Heat of the moment from the fallout OR is that how she trully feels? I may never know.
Now granted I have had moments where I was not the best a friend should be, but no where near what we have had done to us by her. I wont go into more details, but this blog is just one example. Multiply by six years, I could write a book on just my relationship with her. HMMM??? Yeah I dont think that is any where in the future. Until later...
This is the type of girl that will do anything for you. She would be by my side no matter what, in any situation...until...she started seeing a new guy. And there have been alot of new guys in six years. It's like they took over her ability to do or say anything on her own. This girl wants to please her new guy in any and every way. Unfortunately, in the process she throws all family and friends to the side to make this happen.
It could be from the guy being a jerk to her, not likeing one of us, wanting her all to their self, etc. She puts up with it, not having any respect or well being for her kids and expects us to stay off in the distance. In the end when he leaves or she finally wakes up...To her it's expected we still be her friend. To forgive her and understand that we are the most important in her life? This has happened to me several times and every time I forgive and move on because that's what friends do right? WRONG this time things went way to far and I moved on.
Now dont get me wrong, when she is single, she is a great friend, but this last guy is a jerk. They fought so much that it became a day to day ordeal. I moved in with them for a short period to reevaluate my life and he was horrible. She began blameing things she had or hadnt done on me, just to keep him from yelling at her. Well then he began hating me and talking bad about me. I didnt know that she had done this til the day he asked for the money on electric. I gave it to him no problem and later there was a note ..YES A NOTE on my door stating he did not want rent two weeks later, but instead for me to move.
Instead of her standing up and telling him the truth on her lies, she pretended it was all me and let this happen to what she proclaimed as her true life friend. Well I left, but this time I let her know I would not be there to pick up her pieces. It ended in a huge fight very close to physical and almost 4 weeks to the day I have not spoken with her.
Guess who texted? Trying to be friendly saying her kids missed mine, asking about work, etc. I respectfully answer with yes or no answers and left it at that. I can tell by the texts she was trying to get her rock back. I know that sounds funny, but we were each others shoulder to cry on in life, love and everything in between.
I miss her dearly and want to catch her up on how well my life is, but do I dare fall back into the craziness of her life dramas? We had the strongest grip in each others lives, but aside from all this, I also heard that she was talking trash and a friend of both of ours showed me private messages between them and the way she was bad mouthing me. Heat of the moment from the fallout OR is that how she trully feels? I may never know.
Now granted I have had moments where I was not the best a friend should be, but no where near what we have had done to us by her. I wont go into more details, but this blog is just one example. Multiply by six years, I could write a book on just my relationship with her. HMMM??? Yeah I dont think that is any where in the future. Until later...
Monday, November 15, 2010
A Little Insight To Catch Everyone Up...
Lets see what to say...I will fill you in on background information as we go along on this journey together. At the moment, I am wondering WHY guys are so difficult. Even the word "no" seems to go right out the door on the smallest things.
No disrespect to my " man of the house", but come on was it really necessary to take apart the car charger, just to see what was inside? Oh, breaking it in the process!! That's like ten bucks in the drain.
What gets me the most. Manners (ie. opening doors, respect, love), attention I receive, making sure I am happy, its all there. Yet he does the stupidest things that annoy me so bad. People say I am raising three kids instead of two. No lies, I do feel that way sometimes.
My goal in life is to succeed in everything or at least know I tried my hardest. It is hard to teach my kids these things when my " man of the house " has no idea how to do them himself. Now given my husband and I split and he is trying to take a opening as stepdad in a way doesn't give him the right to use that as an excuse.
I am happy, but confused. My thoughts are so scattered that I need this as an out to escape, relax and learn. Sorry if this is alot to take on in one post, but the future ones to come will fill in the gaps.
No disrespect to my " man of the house", but come on was it really necessary to take apart the car charger, just to see what was inside? Oh, breaking it in the process!! That's like ten bucks in the drain.
What gets me the most. Manners (ie. opening doors, respect, love), attention I receive, making sure I am happy, its all there. Yet he does the stupidest things that annoy me so bad. People say I am raising three kids instead of two. No lies, I do feel that way sometimes.
My goal in life is to succeed in everything or at least know I tried my hardest. It is hard to teach my kids these things when my " man of the house " has no idea how to do them himself. Now given my husband and I split and he is trying to take a opening as stepdad in a way doesn't give him the right to use that as an excuse.
I am happy, but confused. My thoughts are so scattered that I need this as an out to escape, relax and learn. Sorry if this is alot to take on in one post, but the future ones to come will fill in the gaps.
Just The Beginning....
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I have been through alot in 28 years and who knows this may help one person going through a rough patch. Or just be a blog that stays strong and has you coming back for more.
I am writing about life, but I promise to family and friends, names will be changed. Unless you really upset me then I may need to put you on blast. Kidding!! I will not promise perfect sentences or punctuation, but I will promise a daily entertaining blog on my life past, present and future.
Wish me luck!
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